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		<title>By: Davina</title>
		<link>http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/05/31/mindful-melancholy/comment-page-1/#comment-1395</link>
		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 03:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tom.
Surprise is perfection! :-)

Hi Tammy.
Thank you, I&#039;m glad you enjoyed this one. That is so true what you say... reading about other similar experiences creates a common bond. A porch on every side of the house? That&#039;s great. You can follow the sun or follow the shade. What a great idea!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tom.<br />
Surprise is perfection! :-)</p>
<p>Hi Tammy.<br />
Thank you, I&#8217;m glad you enjoyed this one. That is so true what you say&#8230; reading about other similar experiences creates a common bond. A porch on every side of the house? That&#8217;s great. You can follow the sun or follow the shade. What a great idea!</p>
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		<title>By: Tammy-Cricket</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tammy-Cricket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 13:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, what a beautiful post Davina. Well...they all are. You know when I read that others experience the same emotions such as I ...it is comforting. 

Your memories are great. My biggest reflection is of the past memories I have of sitting on a front porch at my grandparents. I have such happy times there. When I designed my current home I made sure I had a porch on every side of the house. When things get tough, and I need my space, I will venture outside to sit. My children usually know what I am doing and they respect my silence. 

Life does continue to move right along as we have these moments. The good thing, we can hop right back on the train and keep on going without missing a thing.
.-= Tammy-Cricket&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ACricketInAGarden/~3/qvU6aET1B0Y/simple-things.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Simple Things...&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, what a beautiful post Davina. Well&#8230;they all are. You know when I read that others experience the same emotions such as I &#8230;it is comforting. </p>
<p>Your memories are great. My biggest reflection is of the past memories I have of sitting on a front porch at my grandparents. I have such happy times there. When I designed my current home I made sure I had a porch on every side of the house. When things get tough, and I need my space, I will venture outside to sit. My children usually know what I am doing and they respect my silence. </p>
<p>Life does continue to move right along as we have these moments. The good thing, we can hop right back on the train and keep on going without missing a thing.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Tammy-Cricket&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ACricketInAGarden/~3/qvU6aET1B0Y/simple-things.html">Simple Things&#8230;</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar / Delightful Work</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar / Delightful Work</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 15:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, that&#039;s true but isn&#039;t surprise worth so much more?  I love the pleasant surprise so much so that accepting what is while working in unattached fashion has become my intention.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tom Volkar / Delightful Work’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DelightfulWork/~3/N4u37UrXiLQ/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Five Disturbing Ways To Make More Money&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, that&#8217;s true but isn&#8217;t surprise worth so much more?  I love the pleasant surprise so much so that accepting what is while working in unattached fashion has become my intention.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tom Volkar / Delightful Work’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DelightfulWork/~3/N4u37UrXiLQ/">Five Disturbing Ways To Make More Money</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 08:38:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tom.
You&#039;ve got me to thinking that even when things turn out the way we &quot;expect&quot; we aren&#039;t necessarily going to know how we will feel until it happens. We can&#039;t even plan our response to successful intentions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tom.<br />
You&#8217;ve got me to thinking that even when things turn out the way we &#8220;expect&#8221; we aren&#8217;t necessarily going to know how we will feel until it happens. We can&#8217;t even plan our response to successful intentions.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar / Delightful Work</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar / Delightful Work</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 15:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;There is courage in not always knowing where you are headed. Encourage the unfolding; trust it.&quot;  I dig this big time.  This wisdom is what keeps me embracing the unknown especially with how my intentions turn out.  I think it&#039;s the only sane way to live.

I loved the Waltons too. I think many of us wanted to be in that family.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tom Volkar / Delightful Work’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DelightfulWork/~3/N4u37UrXiLQ/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Five Disturbing Ways To Make More Money&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;There is courage in not always knowing where you are headed. Encourage the unfolding; trust it.&#8221;  I dig this big time.  This wisdom is what keeps me embracing the unknown especially with how my intentions turn out.  I think it&#8217;s the only sane way to live.</p>
<p>I loved the Waltons too. I think many of us wanted to be in that family.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tom Volkar / Delightful Work’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DelightfulWork/~3/N4u37UrXiLQ/">Five Disturbing Ways To Make More Money</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 05:20:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lance.
You have some great memories to share. Farm life is something near and dear to my heart -- leaving the farm and heading to college must have been a big change for you. And, people still showing up on your wedding day, in the middle of a snowstorm, so great! You and your wife had some dedicated support,that&#039;s for sure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lance.<br />
You have some great memories to share. Farm life is something near and dear to my heart &#8212; leaving the farm and heading to college must have been a big change for you. And, people still showing up on your wedding day, in the middle of a snowstorm, so great! You and your wife had some dedicated support,that&#8217;s for sure.</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 10:32:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Davina,
I guess we have those parts of us, that maybe have been there for a long time, that are hard to let go of.  I love the thought, though - of letting go and moving forward (as hard as that can sometimes be).

Memories that make me feel whole? I&#039;m drawn back to days on the farm.  And the day I headed off to college - from small town America to the big city.  And my wedding day - and the big snowstorm that came with it (and how people still showed up).

Wonderful post Davina...

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lance’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JungleOfLife/~3/2sbG2MNtzoM/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Flip It&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Davina,<br />
I guess we have those parts of us, that maybe have been there for a long time, that are hard to let go of.  I love the thought, though &#8211; of letting go and moving forward (as hard as that can sometimes be).</p>
<p>Memories that make me feel whole? I&#8217;m drawn back to days on the farm.  And the day I headed off to college &#8211; from small town America to the big city.  And my wedding day &#8211; and the big snowstorm that came with it (and how people still showed up).</p>
<p>Wonderful post Davina&#8230;</p>
<p><abbr><em>Lance’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JungleOfLife/~3/2sbG2MNtzoM/">Flip It</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jewel.
Glad this inspired you. Appreciation is priceless... whether it&#039;s appreciation for the past, or what&#039;s now. It all feeds us -- appreciation can only happen now. 

Hi Barbara.
It&#039;s great fun to reminisce over old photos isn&#039;t it? It&#039;s a real sign that you have been blessed to have this to share with your siblings.

Hi Cath.
I remember Bonanza. And Little House On The Prairie was another one of my favourites. Did you read Laura Ingalls&#039; book series of the same name? I LOVED those stories. I think it&#039;s huge when you can feel fondness for things that weren&#039;t so great; to recognize where you&#039;ve been...it shows appreciation for yourself no matter what you&#039;ve experienced, unconditionally.

Hi Evita.
It is pretty amazing when you think about it isn&#039;t it? How hard we try to make things happen sometimes, and yet other things happen that we couldn&#039;t have even dreamed of -- things that have such an impact on our lives. &quot;Life is just what happens to you while you&#039;re busy making other plans...&quot; -- Lyrics from &lt;i&gt;Beautiful Boy&lt;/i&gt; by John Lennon. I agree completely, &quot;...there is so much more to this whole story called &#039;life&#039;.&quot;

Hi Lori.
Rural nights in Oklahoma -- would make a good title for a story or poem. Have you read Betsy&#039;s latest post at passingthru.com? She has included some recordings of different loon calls. It is satisfying to walk through these types of feelings. Most people try to resist or hide from them. There is something worthwhile there... and once on the other side... the view is pretty great. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jewel.<br />
Glad this inspired you. Appreciation is priceless&#8230; whether it&#8217;s appreciation for the past, or what&#8217;s now. It all feeds us &#8212; appreciation can only happen now. </p>
<p>Hi Barbara.<br />
It&#8217;s great fun to reminisce over old photos isn&#8217;t it? It&#8217;s a real sign that you have been blessed to have this to share with your siblings.</p>
<p>Hi Cath.<br />
I remember Bonanza. And Little House On The Prairie was another one of my favourites. Did you read Laura Ingalls&#8217; book series of the same name? I LOVED those stories. I think it&#8217;s huge when you can feel fondness for things that weren&#8217;t so great; to recognize where you&#8217;ve been&#8230;it shows appreciation for yourself no matter what you&#8217;ve experienced, unconditionally.</p>
<p>Hi Evita.<br />
It is pretty amazing when you think about it isn&#8217;t it? How hard we try to make things happen sometimes, and yet other things happen that we couldn&#8217;t have even dreamed of &#8212; things that have such an impact on our lives. &#8220;Life is just what happens to you while you&#8217;re busy making other plans&#8230;&#8221; &#8212; Lyrics from <i>Beautiful Boy</i> by John Lennon. I agree completely, &#8220;&#8230;there is so much more to this whole story called &#8216;life&#8217;.&#8221;</p>
<p>Hi Lori.<br />
Rural nights in Oklahoma &#8212; would make a good title for a story or poem. Have you read Betsy&#8217;s latest post at passingthru.com? She has included some recordings of different loon calls. It is satisfying to walk through these types of feelings. Most people try to resist or hide from them. There is something worthwhile there&#8230; and once on the other side&#8230; the view is pretty great. :-)</p>
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		<title>By: Lori Hoeck</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori Hoeck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 01:27:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fried bologna with tons of mustard! The memories in the post ring of many wonderful times. A friend sent an audio msg on the cell two nights ago of frogs bellowing across a lake in Wyoming somewhere. How it took me back to nights in rural Oklahoma! 

While between blogs, I was able to heal and release much that needed to go. I had to walk through those feelings as well, instead of around them.  A big help was Bach Flower remedies -- I can&#039;t say enough about them!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lori Hoeck’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThinkLikeABlackBelt/~3/zSxgAyu7l2Y/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How would you face danger or disaster?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fried bologna with tons of mustard! The memories in the post ring of many wonderful times. A friend sent an audio msg on the cell two nights ago of frogs bellowing across a lake in Wyoming somewhere. How it took me back to nights in rural Oklahoma! </p>
<p>While between blogs, I was able to heal and release much that needed to go. I had to walk through those feelings as well, instead of around them.  A big help was Bach Flower remedies &#8212; I can&#8217;t say enough about them!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Lori Hoeck’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThinkLikeABlackBelt/~3/zSxgAyu7l2Y/">How would you face danger or disaster?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Evita</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 20:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Davina - this was so profoud!!! I am actually speechless because you put it so beautifully how we grow, how we evolve, how we may not recognize ourselves! It is pretty amazing when one stops to think about it - and very emotionally moving too. I think simply because we are indeed humbled to see how far we have grown. 

On a day to day basis we may get caught up in &quot;not being enough, not doing enough&quot; but when we step back and really look at all we have experienced and how we have changed - it is pretty remarkable!

To answer your questions, I simply going to say this. There are many memories that I actually have upon which I look back fondly - mostly around everything that has to do with me and my husband, from the beginning to now.

But beyond all the memories, I feel, I see and I breathe the changes within me - the evolution of my being, and I feel God - literally, I like you am often moved to an indescribable feeling that there is so much more to this whole story called &quot;life&quot;.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Evita’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/EvolvingScenes/~3/TiZX7z2PjbI/skywatch-friday-fragrant-skies&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SkyWatch Friday - Fragrant Skies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Davina &#8211; this was so profoud!!! I am actually speechless because you put it so beautifully how we grow, how we evolve, how we may not recognize ourselves! It is pretty amazing when one stops to think about it &#8211; and very emotionally moving too. I think simply because we are indeed humbled to see how far we have grown. </p>
<p>On a day to day basis we may get caught up in &#8220;not being enough, not doing enough&#8221; but when we step back and really look at all we have experienced and how we have changed &#8211; it is pretty remarkable!</p>
<p>To answer your questions, I simply going to say this. There are many memories that I actually have upon which I look back fondly &#8211; mostly around everything that has to do with me and my husband, from the beginning to now.</p>
<p>But beyond all the memories, I feel, I see and I breathe the changes within me &#8211; the evolution of my being, and I feel God &#8211; literally, I like you am often moved to an indescribable feeling that there is so much more to this whole story called &#8220;life&#8221;.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Evita’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/EvolvingScenes/~3/TiZX7z2PjbI/skywatch-friday-fragrant-skies">SkyWatch Friday &#8211; Fragrant Skies</a></em></abbr></p>
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