4. Alluring Pathways Through Thyme

by Davina on September 23, 2009

TallTree2Chapter Four: “You are here”

PRELUDE

We are here — coming to the close of Day Two. You know what? I find myself wondering what possessed me to write a series of 11 posts about MY vacation. What makes MY vacation SO important that I NEED to tell the story? Who cares right?

I mean, what’s really happened so far? I missed a ferry, got locked out, took a bumpy bus ride, met a happy Italian and a big spider. Definitely not movie material.

What I do know is that I’d forgotten how much I enjoy just telling a story for the sake of telling it. It makes me happy. And it fascinates me to see the story becoming more than I remembered it to be.

Even though these posts are based on the journals I kept while staying at Island Thyme, thoughts and feelings continue to evolve as I reflect on the experience.

The story keeps unfolding and though I was there for those five days and you weren’t, through this writing even I don’t know exactly what is going to come next. It just goes to show how time changes everything.

So, lets march on shall we…

The path forward

Up the hill I marched. And up, and up and up. It was a continuous climb along a quiet road surrounded by, you guessed it, trees. They towered towards the sky and interestingly I didn’t feel small in comparison. On the contrary; I felt tall.

I couldn’t believe how quiet it was. After having longed for this for weeks I was rightfully appreciative. Aside from songbirds and the wind (and me gasping for breath), the only sound I could hear was my footsteps on the pavement. Occasionally I’d pass by a residence and a dog would bark from behind a fence or screen door. I’d see their silhouettes and would “woof” back to them. That made them bark louder… and me smile.

I was quite breathless by the time I reached Mutiny Road 10 minutes later. Turning left led me to yet another uphill climb, this time over a rocky path. The rocks provided good leverage though and I persevered to the You Are Here sign, brushing past it with a brief sideways glance. Maps and I don’t get on real well; they never take me where they say they will.

There’s something alluring about a path in the woods. Even as a little girl I couldn’t resist following the paths I found in the forested areas around the farmland pastures. I’d leave my sisters behind and they’d end up going home, leaving me to wander alone to my heart’s content.

With my senses more alert, I floated down this path seemingly swallowed up by the forest. I soaked in the stillness, embraced the solitude. My footsteps sunk into the soft ground like I was walking on a thick carpet. The air smelled foresty with scents of cedar and earth. I felt like I was intruding.

After a short time, I found myself feeling tired from the run into town, a late lunch and the uphill climb. The afternoon was getting on past 4 pm and I decided not to go any further. I was content to not force any agenda. And you thought this was the big Mount Gardner hike! We’re just warming up kids.

The return trip was much more pleasant given that it was all downhill. My canine friends greeted me as I passed by the second time. I spent the next half hour exploring the garden back at Island Thyme.

Garden StairsA seasoned love

“The greatest gift of the garden is the restoration of the five senses.”
-Hanna Ri

Wynn’s own words describe her garden beautifully:

“Meandering paths and stone steps lead you down slopes to a quiet green oasis of moss among the trees….

Outdoor ambient lighting showcases the garden at night highlighting the giant cedars, gnarly bonsai pine and stone feature walls.”

I adored the raw beauty here and rested on the stone steps. Appreciation seasoned my thoughts.

While resting in the garden my grandmother was foremost in my mind. The one person I’d loved more than any other – even more than my mother. That was just the way it had worked out. We were close on many levels and shared an unspoken understanding.

She’d been gone for almost 18 years. When I think about her I am surprised at how much I love her even now, after she’s gone. I’d visit her often in North Bay after I’d moved to Toronto. Her wet, cold kisses on my cheek would sadden me when our visit was ending.

After her death, I’d find myself feeling regret at not realizing how much I’d loved her when she was alive, wishing I had told her more often. But I soon realized that I had loved her as much as I could then.

I have grown to love her more, years later. Love continues to grow over time and through the seasons, beyond the human form. It was only too fitting that my thoughts would turn to Margaret’s memory, sitting in this beautiful garden at Island Thyme.

Stay tuned for Chapter Five when Davina tangles with a sketch pad and a series of HB pencils. Yes the artist’s way is about to be revealed.

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{ 21 comments }

1 Betsy Wuebker September 23, 2009 at 7:08 am

Hi Davina – Just lovely. And I’m a little teary about your granny, now, too! The mark of a good storyteller, dear. Can’t wait for the next installment. Thanks.
.-= Betsy Wuebker´s last blog ..POETRY FROM OUR SPAM FOLDER =-.

2 Sonia Panesar September 23, 2009 at 11:10 am

Davina, I was glued to your story. I have just finished work and it was nice to switch off and float away into a storyland for a few minutes whilst reading your post so thank you. Oh and met a big spider…hehe that made me giggle lol. Sonia
.-= Sonia Panesar´s last blog ..Smile for Your Life…It’s Good for You =-.

3 Lori Hoeck September 23, 2009 at 12:46 pm

“Appreciation seasoned my thoughts.” — I like that, you know with the Thyme theme and all.

Your story telling is FUN!
.-= Lori Hoeck´s last blog ..Distractions help movie heroes and self defense =-.

4 vered - blogger for hire September 23, 2009 at 1:35 pm

Davina, you have a real talent. Not everyone can pull me into a story like you can (and this is while I’m insanely busy with work and still I can’t stop reading!)
.-= vered – blogger for hire´s last blog ..A Warning Label for Retouched Photos =-.

5 Julie September 23, 2009 at 3:21 pm

You’re a natural storyteller. The flow of your words makes reading effortless and yet so colorful! What a talent you have, Davina! I’m not going to want the series to end. ;)
.-= Julie´s last blog ..Honor Redux, with a Twist =-.

6 patricia September 23, 2009 at 3:57 pm

Davina,
Who says this is not a book? Do you know the story called the Unknown Woman? It was given to me in my 40s ….it is lovely like your writing. The author is divorcing, rents cabin in New England for the winter to do some research for sustenance, and adopts a puppy by accident. It is about her thoughts and dreams as she walks the puppy on the beach everyday – 2 times a day – and the little grocery nearby and the emptiness of the small village in Winter – She is transformed by the experience and one cries and is moved by her words. We all need reminders and hope.
thank you for sharing.
.-= patricia´s last blog ..DIY* Healthcare Plan: Skin Care =-.

7 Barbara Swafford September 23, 2009 at 8:09 pm

Hi Davina,

I was right there with you, climbing and enjoying the scenery along the way. Such a beautiful story and photos.

I also have to agree with the previous comments, you are a marvelous story teller. Can you make this last longer?
.-= Barbara Swafford´s last blog ..When Real Life Friends Don’t “Get It” =-.

8 Cath Lawson September 23, 2009 at 8:50 pm

Hi Davina – You could write about anything and it would be interesting.

I love what you said about your grandmother. Isn’t it wonderful that love doesn’t die when people do?

My grandmother died 14 years ago next month and I still find myself having brief imaginary conversations with her sometimes.

9 Davina September 23, 2009 at 9:29 pm

Hiya Betsy.
Awh… my grannie got to you too eh? :-) She was a lovely soul — my Margaret. Thank you for sharing this journey with me.

Hi Sonia.
Welcome :-) The big spider made you giggle eh? Well stick around… she gets a name later on too. She kinda grew on me. Thanks for popping by and leaving a comment.

Hi Lori.
You’re on to me! Ha, ha.

Hi Vered.
Thank you! That means a lot to me because I’ve been enjoying this even more than I thought I would. And knowing that you are enjoying it makes it even more worth it.

Hi Julie.
*smile* Thank you… I don’t think I want it to end either. Guess I’ll have to go back to Bowen Island. Got your plane ticket yet?

Hi Patricia.
I just tweeted you :-) I’m flipping back and forth tonight. Thanks for sharing about the Unknown Woman — it sounds intriguing. I’m so glad you are enjoying this. Before I posted this one I ended up writing the prologue to ease my way into it and OUT of self-doubt.

Hi Barbara.
Thanks :-) I’ll be stretching this out for a few more weeks; probably post twice a week until I run out of chapters — 8 more to go and maybe a short conclusion after that. I feel like a little kid again… sharing “secrets”.

Hi Cath.
Thank you :-) That is great to hear. It is surprising I realized how love really does go on even after people die. The challenge I find is dealing with not being able to tell them or hug them anymore. So, you too huh? I wonder what it is about grandmothers eh? Sounds like you two were close as well. Bet you still remember her phone number???

10 Evita September 24, 2009 at 7:17 am

Davina, I am so glad that you are telling this story because you are truly amazing at it!

So what makes your vacation so special – simply the fact that it happened – and every event in this universe is just as special, it really is – you know why? Because it meant something to someone out there and that is reason enough!

It is funny too how sometimes we look forward to something so much, only to feel so different when we actually get there…why? what changed? Many things and of course us the most. Sometimes we set out expectations that don’t reflect the nature of the experience and sometimes we just plain and simple change our state of being, which is enough to make us feel different. Either way, I too am a big lover of paths through forests – I find them utterly magical!
.-= Evita´s last blog ..Unique Encounters =-.

11 Tess The Bold Life September 24, 2009 at 7:25 am

Davina,
I love this…I only see beauty and magical, what do you mean nothing really happened! (I really know what you mean) I grew up on a farm as well and I could smell the path from your photos. I could feel the peacefulness from your words and the love for your grandmother brought memories of my own grandchildren and how they thrill me from head to toe! Thanks for these moments. Are you bringing your journal on the trip next year?!?

12 Sara September 24, 2009 at 9:34 am

Davina — I have a lot of catching up to do! I loved this story. Even though I also had tears about your grandmother, there’s a lightness in the words you’ve written in this post. I can sense from reading it that you are having fun with your writing. You sound so relaxed and that’s nice:~)

This post is a good reminder that sometimes it’s the simple things we do that give us the most pleasure. Obviously, this vacation was good for you and your muse!

I will be back to read Chapter’s 1-3. I can’t wait to find out about you being locked out or the SPIDER…they always scare me:~)
.-= Sara´s last blog ..How Courageous =-.

13 janice September 24, 2009 at 11:52 am

I’m glad there are 11 posts planned – I’m loving these! You have a real gift at the best of times, but in these journal inspired pieces, you’ve truly found your bliss and your stride again. Isn’t it funny how regular blogging can feel daunting, while ‘proper’ writing in a notebook is like heaven?

Like Tess, I could smell those woods. I grew up next to woods and spent my whole childhood playing there. It angers and saddens me that I’m too scared to do much walking alone any more. Your boldness staggers and inspires me.
.-= janice´s last blog ..101 Slightly Unpredictable Tips for Novelists and Screenwriters =-.

14 Liara Covert September 24, 2009 at 2:59 pm

Ever step of awakening is an invitation to expand. You are experiencing nature on a whole new level and inviting your blog readers to engage differently in the great outdoors. We always appreciate your reflections.
.-= Liara Covert´s last blog ..David Icke & a new spiritual revolution =-.

15 Davina September 25, 2009 at 2:52 pm

Hi Evita.
Gee thanks :-) This was one of the FEW times I’ve experienced something that turned out to be MORE than I’d expected too. There is something to be said for letting things unfold as they need to.

Hi Tess.
Yes I’ll be bringing the journal to the Grand Canyon. Growing up on a farm was the best thing that ever happened to me. Can you imagine your life without that experience?

Hi Sara.
Good point — “It’s the simple things we do that give us the most pleasure.” This experience was different than most as I didn’t “push the envelope” about whether I’d do everything I thought I’d do.

Hi Janice.
Thank you :-) Maybe you could connect with a few people in your neighbourhood and organize a walking group?

Hi Liara.
Thanks. Nature has a habit of waking us up… at least from my perspective. Makes your senses come alive.

16 Liara Covert September 26, 2009 at 8:39 pm

Davina, you are always in the process of waking up the authentic self. Efforts are constant. Yet every cell is not yet ready for the quantum leap. Nature continues to beckon you as an added nudge to accept all you are.
.-= Liara Covert´s last blog ..What does awakening mean? =-.

17 Jannie Funster September 27, 2009 at 5:49 pm

I bet you and your grandmother will pick up just where you left off in love and togetherness.

I think what resonates about these posts was your peaceful, playful and open frame of mind, and how your writing fairly flowed in descriptive language from it.

Only 11 of these. Oh well… We’ll take what we can get.
.-= Jannie Funster´s last blog ..Now, Where’d I Put Those Passports? =-.

18 Davina September 27, 2009 at 5:57 pm

Hi Liara. Nature is pretty sneaky… cause in many ways it distracts me from the Self… and I guess that’s when the magic happens. When we are out of our own way we let go of our boundaries and see farther past our limits. Funny how that works.

19 Davina September 27, 2009 at 5:59 pm

Hey Jannie, how’d you do that! Your comment appeared out of nowhere :-) You know I’m really appreciating the lovely feedback on these posts. I had my doubts when I thought about all 11 of them and whether people would eventually get tired and fade away. I KNOW my gram and I will pick up right where we left off! Yes, yes, yes… no doubt in my mind.

20 Hilary September 28, 2009 at 10:07 am

Hi Davina.. wonderful tale of your uphill climb and the weaving of the magic words to paint the picture: Island Thyme sounds a lovely place – just had a look on Wiki .. to see where it is – I like to know things! Mum and I came out to Calgary, over the Rockies, brief stopover in Vancouver, and then on to VI .. where Mum’s cousin lives – about 12 years ago .. it was lovely.

It seems a really fitting place to remember your Grandmother .. just glad you have such happy memories of her and affinity with her ..

Gorgeous story … keep them coming ..

Thanks – Hilary Melton-Butcher
Positive Letters Inspirational Stories
.-= Hilary´s last blog ..Garnets, Tolkein, Silver and Gold …. =-.

21 Davina September 28, 2009 at 4:22 pm

Hi Hilary.
I’m sure you and your mother would love Island Thyme. The best part about it is that it is so quiet and private. Absolute paradise.

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