Chapter Six: Another time & another story
I was in bed before 10 pm and after writing one page I stopped, feeling less than enthused. I distracted myself by flipping through Wynn’s library and became interested in a book entitled Bowen Island – Reflections.
From the moment I set foot on Bowen Island I had felt something familiar — an unexplained connection. I’m not normally interested in reading about history, but I was intrigued by the opportunity to read about Bowen Island’s early days in the Edwardian era. First published in 2004, this book was filled with pictures dating back to the late 1800s.
I have since contacted the Bowen Island Historians but was unable to obtain permission to use the photos I wanted to show you. So, I’ve found some on Flickr that are very similar. They will escort you and I down memory lane quite nicely.
And so, surrounded by luscious pillows in my cozy bed and with chocolates by my side, I turned each and every delicious page of that book, an “extensive photographic archive collected by the Historians over the past 37 years…”
The photographs revealed a simpler way of life. Though, I imagine they didn’t see it that way. Quaint cottages like the one pictured below spoke to me of good wholesome family life — an idealistic notion that I’ve carried with me since I can remember.
Bowen Island (with a current population of near 4,000), once served as a fishing ground and resting place for the First Nations people of Squamish on their voyages up and down the coast. In 1860 it was named after James Bowen, a British Rear Admiral, and in 1874 the island welcomed its first white settlers.
Hunting was prevalent – lots of deer and grouse, as well as trout fishing, salmon and herring. “…a government report from 1902 states that fish were so plentiful, they could be ‘raked out of the water…’”
Three major shapers of this island were early commercial logging, steamship ferry service and pleasure craft of cottagers and day trippers. Hundreds of mainlanders visited the island in the summer months to attend formal picnics and beach parties, dressed in their Sunday best. I just love how stately these people look — proud.
I was fascinated reading how bricks were manufactured from blue clay found north and south of then Terminal Creek and were used in the construction of what later became Vancouver’s City Hall.
Amazing how much we don’t realize or appreciate when we’re caught up in the business of our everyday lives. How aware are we of the footprints we are leaving behind us?
I turned the pages slowly, admiring the black and white photographs. It felt as if I was looking through my own family photo album, though I recognized no one, surmising that everyone had since passed on.
Real thyme
Time passed and carried me to sleep. I awoke in the early hours of Wednesday morning to the sound of heavy rain. It was still dark outside and I guessed the time was around 3 am. Soft, comforting shadows blanketed the room and I dared not stir them by turning on a light to check the time.
Nestled in bed with senses as smooth as silk, I sighed with contentment, pulled the blankets closer and drifted back to sleep. I awoke at 7 am hugging my pillow.
Rain continued to pour down and I lay there listening for a while longer until reluctantly, I folded back the blankets and stepped into the cool, dimly lit room. In minutes I was running a hot bath where I lavished in lavender scented bath salts. Was this all real I kept wondering, or was I still dreaming? Did it matter?
The rain poured down all morning and for most of the early afternoon. It was obvious that once again, hiking was not on the agenda. Mount Gardner wasn’t going anywhere, but I would be in three more days. I hoped the weather would co-operate.
I spent hours reclining in the ottoman, toasty warm under two throws, journalling, resting and sometimes just staring out the window at the rain. I hadn’t felt this content to not have to be anywhere or do anything for as long as I could remember. I was acting just like Spider.
Spider was still sitting in her corner of the window, barely having moved for the last two days. I’m not fond of spiders, though I have a great deal of respect for them – I won’t kill one. Mom used to tell us that if we stepped on a spider it would rain, but that wasn’t why. I just couldn’t kill a spider.
I had thought this spider to be pretty hideous at first, but became accustomed to seeing it and would glance in its direction frequently to see if it was still there. I was comfortable enough now to sneak a close peak in the hopes of catching it actually doing something. I’d miss it if it left.
The rain was incredibly loud that afternoon, coming down in torrents, pouring from the eavestroughs. The sound gave me shivers of comfort. It reminded me of my childhood and the storms we’d experience on the farm on Granite Hill Road in northern Ontario. Again, a simpler time by comparison to life as I knew today.
That old stone house had an aluminum roof and sometimes during a storm, I’d climb up the wooden ladder to the attic and sit there listening. The sound was both deafening and delightful… and exciting. I felt safe in that attic, despite the raging storm outside. There were shivers of comfort then too, if I recall.
Today I felt fulfilled, blanketed by two cozy throw blankets; completely content to allow Island Thyme to continue weaving me into its story. After the rain stopped I decided to visit the beach.
More to come in Chapter Seven.
Are there particular times or places you are drawn to for no apparent reason? What is your story?
Photo Credits from Flickr.com:
1. Smabs Sputzer
2. Lovedaylemon
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{ 19 comments }
Hi Davina,
It sounds like you had a perfect day. I also love the sound of the rain, and when it hits a metal roof, that’s even more magical. Recently we had a horrendous rain/hail storm, and my husband who also loves it decided we needed to go for a ride. Just like two kids we were driving through the big puddles laughing as we created waves in the water. LOL It sure doesn’t take much to amuse us.
As I was reading about the simpler days, I wondered, “were they really simpler, or did they just make them look like they were?” I know for my grandparents, they worked their tails off on their farm, but yet they did seem to spend more quality time together in the evenings and families lived close by.
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How I long for days like this. There’s something so soothing about the type of rain you describe, Davina. You’ve painted a beautiful, soothing environment and mood, so very restful and peaceful.
It’s a shame that we must struggle so hard to let go of our many to-do lists for a while and just “be.” When we do just what needs to be done at the time, taking each day as it comes, we fall into a natural rhythm with life, and we find it easier to find the spaces in our days to reconnect. I’m going to try doing just that and see if I can’t create bits of your story in my own days! :)
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Hi Davina – You knew I’d love this post – you had me at the old photographs! Love it! I’d like to know more about Bowen Island itself after you’re done with your vacation story.
What a lovely day this must have been, wrapped up in a blanket with nothing more to do than look out the window. It reminds me of the Joyce Carol Oates’ literary quote of the day a couple of days ago, so I had to go look it up again. It’s actually part of a longer quote:
“All the desks of my life have faced windows and except for an overwrought two-year period in the late 1980s when I worked on a word processor, I have always spent most of my time staring out the window, noting what is there, daydreaming or brooding. Most of the so-called imaginative life is encompassed by these three activities that blend so seamlessly together, not unlike reading the dictionary, as I often do as well, entire mornings can slip by, in a blissful daze of preoccupation. It’s bizarre to me that people think that I am “prolific” and that I must use every spare minute of my time when in fact, as my intimates have always known, I spend most of my time looking out the window.”
If that’s what spurred a talent like hers, imagine what treats you have in store for us! xoxo
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Contemplation is vastly underrated! I tend to think it’s because in this modern world, people find their feelings popping up the minute they stop rushing around, and that’s uncomfortable for many.
The only place I’ve been drawn to for no apparent reason is the beach, and I think the reasons are probably obvious, no mysterious force there.
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I think I’ll have to go back to vancouver just to take note of teh bricks!
Still loving your Thyme journey, Davina.
Me? Mahone Bay, Nova Scotia drew me in forever from the first moment I rounded the bend off Exit 10 from Highway 103 to glimpse what the locals call “the beauty all around us.” And tho thousands of miles from there in body, my heart remains. But I admit I tend to dress a bit more scantily on the beach in NS than those those pictured above. :)
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Hi Davina
What a great story! I loved the part about the spider the most! How cute :)
I used to kill spiders I am ashamed to say, well, that is I used to get others to kill the spiders for me. But no more, these days I do not kill any “bugs” unless by accident. They are all just too precious – too special and after all what gives me the right to dictate why they should or should not live. Just the way I see things these days, I guess…
Anyway, glad to hear you had such a “cozy” nice time!
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Davina — I’ve have finally caught up with your journey. I do so love the way you write!! It’s interesting that your writing will pull up my own memories from the depths of the well of my path. I remember my grandfather’s hunting lodge which had a metal roof. I loved listening to sound of the rain on it, even when it was really loud.
As my family has lived in Florida since the early 1800’s, I have lots of pictures similar to the ones you showed in this post. I’vealways been fascinated by these pictures and the history they show. But I didn’t really consider the history I was leaving until this line of your post, “How aware are we of the footprints we are leaving behind us?” I like that…thinking about my family’s past and the history that I leave:~)
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Hi Davina .. please could you just take me and put me in amongst your throws .. and leave me there for a few weeks ..! A real treat to read .. and I could be there – I remembered the corrugated iron house I owned in Johannesburg .. the rain and the hail beat down .. and heavens above I hope it would stand the test of time .. it did just – how long after I left in the early 1990s I don’t know!
Brilliant tale .. and I loved the pics from the book .. it was only 100 years ago .. we would have been dressed like that – no virginal sandals or hikers!!
Look forward to part 7
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Hi Barbara.
That would have been fun driving through the puddles. You’ve reminded me of that scene from Terms of Endearment when Shirley MacLaine and Jack Nicholson drove along the beach and ended up in the water. I agree and think we have a different attitude these days — we tend to make things more difficult than they are. We’re so spoiled with modern-day conveniences we become impatient easier. I know we worked pretty hard on our farm and it was seen as a normal day’s work.
Hi Julie.
“Falling into the natural rhythm of life,” is a great way to put it. This was such a relaxing day and even though I was disappointed that I couldn’t go hiking, I wasn’t annoyed by it.
Hi Betsy.
I had a feeling you would like these pictures. :-) I thought of you when I was preparing this post. Thanks for sharing that quote “blissful daze of preoccupation” — music to my ears. I like the idea of not feeling like I have to fill every minute with something to do. That’s how we were as kids. Remember this? “Mommy… I’m bored!” :-) Email me your questions about Bowen Island Betsy…
Hi Dot.
Yep… avoiding feelings… with sleeping, tv, too much exercise, eating, etc. Bet road rage would be less prevalent if people just slowed down and actually took responsibility for THEIR feelings and not make others wrong for how they are feeling. I love the beach too. There’s something relaxing about the sound of the water and the fresh air.
Hi Jannie.
That was pretty neat about the bricks — I had no idea. And, Nova Scotia is definitely a place I could see myself visiting. Don’t know what it is, but there is something about both the east and west coast of Canada. Lol, you should see that actual beachwear from the Edwardian era.
Hi Evita.
When I was little I killed a few spiders and always felt bad after I’d done it. Not the same with mosquitoes though. :-)
Hi Sara.
Thanks! I’m glad you’re along for the ride. I love the sound of the rain. It’s nice to listen to while camping and cuddling in a tent too. These kinds of photographs still my mind and I like that.
Hi Hilary.
Sounds like YOU need a holiday! Maybe you should purchase yourself a comfy throw blanket and book yourself some rest time every day. It is hard to believe, isn’t it… that those photos were taken only 100 years ago. I thought that too.
Hi Davina – I love this part and it’s so true – “How aware are we of the footprints we are leaving behind us?”
I wonder what footprints we will leave and who will notice them? What about our blogs – will they still be here after we’re gone and what will folk make of them?
It’s amazing how familiar sounds can give us comforting thoughts and feelings. I used to love being in the bath when there was a thunderstorm. Mind you I don’t right now, because my current bathroom has a ceiling window above the bath and I can never get it shut.
I am feeling relaxed after reading this. It’s been a long time since I had such a day.
“Nestled in bed with senses as smooth as silk” – beautiful.
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I have photos of my own grandmother dressed like this. (My mum was an older mum, as was hers.) Old photos always looked scary and sad till I realised the photographic process required them not to change their expressions much.
I’m still enjoying your holiday; spreading the pieces out like this is making your blog feel like a temporary holiday retreat. Like you, I love the rain when I have the required tools: snuggliness, books, pen and paper, coffee, red wine, chocolate, bread, something tasty, a fire and/or a bubbly floral scented bath.
I’m going to cry at the last ‘episode’ where you have to leave Spider behind. (I suspect it’s actually a dead spider which hasn’t moved and you’re too scared to go and prod it! ;) )
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PS Forgot to say, my absolute fave line was the same as Vered’s. Beautiful.
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Hi Cath.
I know… history is all around us. I was so surprised to learn that the bricks used to build our City Hall were made from clay on Bowen Island. It made me realize that we are surrounded by history. Yes, also I wonder what will become of our blogs — can’t help but think a large majority of the material will cease to exist. “Easy come, easy go.”
So… you… don’t want to get wet while you’re in the tub? :-)
Hi Vered.
It was sooo relaxing. Decadent. Come back and visit if you need a “staycation” :-)
Hi Janice.
I love looking at old photographs… even more so than current ones. So true… loving the rain when you have the required tools… that makes a difference.
Spider was indeed alive and well and weird, but I still think of her and wonder if she’s still sitting in her corner of the window. Wynn mentioned to me that she’d considered asking Spider to move on in consideration of her guests, but decided to leave her be… unless of course she heard a loud scream from an arachnophobic guest.
Thanks for this story Davina — it’s as well-written as always. It reminds me of my own brief acquaintance with a large spider that lived on the ceiling of a hotel in Rome I stayed in, whom I named “Herman.” It could have been a she, though, I suppose. Then I suppose I would have called her “Hermania.”
Hi Chris.
You’re welcome. Lol, Herman could have been a HERman :-) I wonder how a person can tell the sex of a spider. Interesting how you decided your spider was a male and I decided that mine was a female.
Davina,
Most garden spiders that are left are female…many spiders are both sexes!
I used to love rainy days in the summer and that curling down reading sensation…sweet, but after a few years of vacationing in a tent with kids and mud and cold….hmmm not so fun
Great story…
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Hi Patricia.
Oh, I didn’t know that spiders can be both sexes! That is interesting. Thanks. Yah, I hear ya… vacationing with kids in a tent in the mud and cold… doesn’t sound like a lot of fun for anyone. I’d love to have an RV to tell you the truth. Tenting it seems to lose the appeal the older I get.
Hi Davina .. I too have some photos of my mother’s family in Cornwall dressed in their Edwardian and Georgian finery .. sitting on the beach at St Ives – where they lived. They are great memories ..
all the best Hilary Melton-Butcher
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